Attitude is a Key to Success
Economy, it is perhaps not so easy to ask that one of the founders of the company, said a car. But way back when Henry Ford was the right idea: “If money is your hope for independence you will be there. The only real guarantee that the person in this world, a reserve of knowledge, experience and abilities. ”
More than ever, we must teach our children the importance of education and the courage to succeed. But it does not seem to be a popular belief or meaning unless it is directly related to money in their context. As the contents of the future is a long way, what the child is not something more important to do with his time as homework tonight? What children are looking forward to Monday morning and the chance to return to school? What students do not aspire to the freedom of summer vacation, imagine that this game?
It is possible that parents and our culture of fear of a paper on “Education” and “work” lessons learned, and avoid them. Who among us adults that occasional complaints that the workweek is too long pronounced? Each of us still face we found a film was made a documentary. “And who can say they rather go to a museum instead of an amusement park fun?
If we truly want our children to become adults financially successful, we must ensure they know how to prepare and implement the process and cost. When we go to “Education” is a positive and productive experience, we must remind ourselves, as we can, so they have a bad rap instrumental “… and then change the way our children education strategy process.
Remember how happy their children were in kindergarten and first-class! They approached all activities with enthusiasm and admiration. It is fun Monday and actually encourage their enthusiasm. Listen to stories, coloring / drawing, playing with their friends, what is “art”, he will return home with positive descriptions when asked, “What do you do now?” Because he it looks like a game-time employment with us, one day people, it is easy, his experience as pleasant and funny parts.
But when the hard work and returned with complaints about the “work” at school, is it possible that we could have sympathized with parents in the control school, aware of our own failures of science at home and school.
What to do? Put your thoughts and automatic settings for your children head back to the positive column. may take some time and effort – but worth it.
1) avoid the word “homework”. Create a new tradition in your family to call the school “practice” or “learning” or come [with your own words] positive. It can be really stupid for a while, but as long as you use a word that is linked to poverty, problems or boredom, it is difficult to create a new attitude about it. Then, when you talk about things you do after-school, using new words.
2) Create a reward for diligent or pending orders. No prize money … Talk with your child and to consider appropriate results for a positive behavior for success. It also gives you the possibility of a conversation in both directions of a process with important and essential to the success of your child. Make sure your child benefit is often recalled, as he remains the task.
3) Use the “encouraging” that the magazine “school exercises”. “Looks like you really understand.” “It really seems the concept.” “It was very hard year for you, but you stayed there – High Five!” There are some questions you need help with something and we celebrate together. ” “Whoa, boy, I do not know how you do not see. Times when we have additional support from your teacher. “” Where do you think we could find an answer? ”
As the father (or mother), as a child. Their attitude to learning and success in seeps belief systems of your children. Most keep a positive and supportive belief that education is entertaining as well, useful and usable, more likely to inherit your children are Henry Ford’s mantra: “The only real guarantee that the man on the earth it has a reserve of knowledge, experience and ability.